Now at 40 and have never felt more alive. I transformed my health and married my true soul mate. I qualified in Energy Medicine, became an Author and have been researching and teaching about feminine energy for many years.

And all of this happened because I listened to a tiny whisper of my feminine soul.

You can do the same and tap into the power of your own Feminine Energy. Let me share with you how!

The key is to Understand and Honor our Feminine Nature.

But why is it so important? What happens if we don’t?

I meet many women, who are stressed at work, slaves to routine or taking care of everybody else around them but don’t feel they have the right to look after themselves or don’t know how to. And like a plant that doesn’t get watered we can wither, loose our feminine radiance and zest for life. We might age pre-maturely, start to comfort eat and pile on weight or turn to drugs, alcohol or anti-depressants. It’s easy to get caught up in routine, especially if we are in a demanding job or we have children. I have been there myself.

The good news is any woman can wake up at any time. It’s never too late to start looking after your self in the right way and truly understand, reconnect with and nurture our Feminine Energy and begin to reverse any damage.

So what exactly is feminine energy?

We all have an instinctive knowledge of this but are often not consciously aware of it or we have lost touch with it for various reasons.

Feminine and masculine energy are everywhere around us and in us. Nature, places, animals and objects have different polarities of the masculine and feminine.

Masculine Energy is active/giving out and directional.

Feminine Energy is passive/receptive and free-flowing.

The element of Water for example has the feminine polarity and Fire the masculine.

A place of predominant feminine energy is Hawai and a predominant masculine energy (with its directional upward pointing rigid buildings) is New York.

Masculine energy in humans is typically head centered and thought based, whilst Feminine energy is body centered and feeling based.

Every man and woman has both the feminine and masculine energy within them. We are born with varying proportions of these energies. Most women are naturally feminine in their core energy.

This means that the feminine will be our healthy energetic resting place. It’s the energy that will be the most comfortable, joyful and effortless to us.

We are however often spending too much time in our so called “animated masculine” energy.

For example: If our home or work place is predominantly masculine we might feel more valued, safer and less exposed when we act a bit like one of the boys.

When I worked in a Japanese Bank in the City, I often felt as if I had to shut off my heart and body to get by. After a day at work it can then be a matter of habit to stay in a more masculine energy.

This will however drain a woman’s energy and negatively affect female health.  It also neutralizes sexual polarity and attraction in our intimate relationships.

The secret to being healthy, vibrant and happy as a woman is to keep resting in and nurturing our Feminine Energy.

So what are simple and effective ways to nurture our Feminine Energy?

Let me give you 5 powerful ways:

We all instinctively know what’s good for us as women, but the key is to consciously give ourselves permission to claim the time and space to look after ourselves in this way. What I am describing are not idle activities or lazying about but vital ways to maintain health as a woman.

1.      Rest

It is not a sign of weakness to be tired. It can however be a sign of our body telling us that we have been neglecting our feminine side for too long. A lot of us have been frenzied and pushing ourselves for so long that we might simply need to catch up with a lot of rest because we have been drained on a very deep level. So let’s slow down, rest when we need to, have a good night’s sleep and don’t set the alarm on the weekend.

2.      Time in Nature

The Feminine Soul is at home in nature and any time spent outdoors, near trees or in the grounds of either a park or the countryside helps us to refuel our feminine energy. Next time you are out, take in different smells of flowers or grass and feel the breeze. Gaze at a sunset and listen to the wind. Commune with nature in any way you instinctively feel like and allow yourself to experience it as part of your being.

Years ago I attended an intuition training in the US and halfway through the training we had to go outside and communicate with nature. The trainer told us that we should ask the first stone, plant, tree or creature that caught our attention any question and listen to any answers in our minds. I imagined a glorious majestic oak tree giving me really cool pieces of wisdom. Outside I slipped on some wet grass and almost lost my balance. When I looked at the grass I saw some flowers and on one of them I noticed a common fly. I thought: “Surely that doesn’t count, I am not going to ask you any questions – where is my stunning tree?” To my horror I had this little silent question in my head asking: “Why? Is it because I am only a fly?” I thought: “I hate flies, I don’t think it’s supposed to teach me anything!” And then I noticed that it had only one wing. I felt sorry for it and was wondering if it could fly with only one wing. As soon as I had asked myself that question it flew off and was gone. In my mind I heard the words: You don’t have to be perfect to fly! That really hit home. It’s easy to forget to enjoy life to the fullest whilst striving for perfection. So be open, listen to nature and just see what happens.

3.      Music and Singing

Listening to beautiful music can open your right brain and evoke feelings of happiness and contentment. By singing along to our favorite song, chanting a sacred mantra or attending a class to free our voice we are using our bodies to create a healing vibration and energize ourselves. There are no rights and wrongs and Karaoke with your children can be just as nurturing as chanting in Sanskrit.

4.     Enjoying and accepting our Body

A lot of us have lost touch with our bodies. During one seminar where I was talking about healing our Sensuality a woman told me: “I just feel dead from my head downwards!” Remember Feminine Energy is body centered. Reconnecting with our bodies is absolutely vital for any woman. We need to change the way we look at ourselves and how we move our bodies. When women exercise in a masculine way it will make them look harder and has negative effects on health, happiness and intimate relationships. Most of us make no distinction between male or female ways to move. We are not aware that many exercises are not suitable for women in the long term. We are told to go to the gym, lift weights, go on the treadmill etc., but few of us understand that although this might be alright for men, it can be bad news for women despite looking more toned.

Masculine exercises often have a competitive edge and produce the stress hormone adrenaline. During exercise men typically strive to improve endurance, speed, strength, muscle tone etc. However, healthy feminine energy and radiance is closely linked to feeling physical pleasure and the joy of being in a female body. The focus should not be on perfecting our bodies but enjoying our bodies to the fullest. Healthy movement for women will encourage the flow of endorphines – our pleasure giving hormones - and promote a more sensual physical energy and feeling of wellbeing. Any movement that feels good is the best exercise for a woman.

When my 10 year old daughter comes back from school we often do a 10 minute crazy dance to the song: “Girls just wanna have fun”. We rollerscate in the park, do the hula hoop or jump on our rebounder to music. On my own I bellydance, do Nia and African Healing Dance. Feminine movement, especially belly dancing, sacred or healing dances will truly connect us with our body. It energizes us, heals physically and emotionally and is a most enjoyable and invigorating way to exercise for women.

Always listen to your body and ask yourself: How does this movement feel? Am I happier and more energetic than before?

In my book “Kinetikus – the story of a Divine Lover” I explain feminine and masculine polarity as a basis for healthy intimacy. Kinetikus was written with the loving intention to help us open our hearts and bodies. Please feel free to test-read the first chapter by clicking HERE!

5. Opening our Heart

Giving and Receiving Love is one of our greatest feminine gifts and energizes us. Make a conscious choice to keep opening your heart to yourself and others and fully enjoy the flow of love in your life. Practice giving and receiving love regardless of your mood or circumstances with your friends and family.

If a relative or friend makes a judgemental comment I remind myself that I can still feel love for them and that they mean more to me than just their behaviour. Allow your heart to expand continuously.

You have the right to look after yourself as a woman. Let's promise ourselves to nurture our feminine energy. Every woman’s journey to do so is unique but it is inextricably linked to enjoying our body and opening our heart fully.

Remember: It’s a pleasure to be a woman!

If you have any questions please feel free to send an email to: susannemeis@orangelily.net and I am happy to answer them as best as I can.

1. Women: Let him do his job and focus on creating a relaxed and supportive atmosphere

The number one incredient for romance is polarity. In short, men need to feel that they are trusted in their direction and competence by their women, and women need to feel that although their partner might put more hours into their work, they are still prepared to set aside quality time to be fully present and express love to their women.

Practically, this means for women to disregard the urge to keep checking up on your partners' business success or ask him daily if he is on track with his to do list. Also drop any nagging on household chores. Basically don't project your own fears or sense of insecurity onto your partner. Let him get on with his day. Even allow him to work longer hours to generate additional income streams if he feels it's necessary. It's important he feels that you trust his direction and ability to generate a sufficient income, even if there might be no tangible proof of this yet!

2. Men: Take charge and suggest scheduling a romantic weekly date (day or evening) with your partner

It does not have to be dinner at the Ritz and might simply mean that you have a time slot to huddle up and watch a movie together with a cup of tea. Suggest a few ideas to your lady and ask her what she likes best. It's important for her to know that you are fully present and enjoying your time with her rather than ticking of an extra point on your to do list.

3. Intimate Success: Instead of moaning about the state of the world make a conscious effort to focus on your goals and successes to attract more positive results. Take just 5 minutes daily to each focus on your achievements (personal and/or business, small or large) and jot them down on a list. Write down what is truly important to you. I.e. "I finally managed to write that letter to…"  or "I made that dreaded phone call…" "I cooked a lovely nutritious meal…"

Then make an "Intimate Success" date with your partner for a designated time slot every week where you spent a little time sharing and celebrating your successes openly together. Only praise and supportive comments are allowed. You will learn what currently truly matters to your partner, will feel up-to-date and connected and might even feel like more action.

Steamy romance doesn't need to break the bank:

• Instead of going to the cinema for the latest action flic hire a comedy (romantic or otherwise) at your local film library or swap recommended DVD's with friends. Shared laughter is simply the best remedy to relax and help put you in the mood for more.

• Instead of going out for an expensive meal, prepare a romantic picnic and walk or drive to a nearby scenic spot where you can enjoy privacy in your car or on a picnic blanket while feeding each other fresh food. And with a kiss as an aperitif who knows what's for desert!
  
  
• Save petrol, leave the car at home and explore walking to local grocery shops for shared bargain hunting or finding mystery ethnic foods. Play hide and seek in a store, chase eachother or pretend your don't know each other and are testing your flirting skills. After all that fun, tasting new foods or exotic fruit and veg can spice things up additionally.

• Get creative together: Take each turns to draw or sketch your favorite body part/s of your partner in under 5 minutes. It's tintilating to feel undivided "just look - don't touch" attention and you might be amazed to discover your partner will offer so much more than just a hidden artistic talent. He might amuse his muse in more than one ways.

  Most of all: Remember Life is too short to be afraid. There is always time for Love and Laughter .

  So let's crush the credit crunch with a new crush on each other!

It is time for women to re-think the way they exercise. If we exercise in a masculine way as women, we will not only end up looking harder, but also become more masculine in our energy which can cause more problems. Some female celebrities have gone down this route already. Exercising in a masculine way can have negative effects on our health, happiness and especially our intimate relationships. Most of us make no distinction between male or female ways to exercise, but not all exercises are suitable for women in the long term. This is a little known truth. We are told to go to the gym, lift weights, go on the treadmill etc., but few of us understand that although this might be beneficial for men, it can be bad news for women despite looking more toned.

Masculine exercises often have a competitive edge and produce the stress hormone adrenaline. During exercise men typically strive to improve endurance, speed, strength muscle tone etc. However, healthy feminine energy and radiance is closely linked to feeling physical pleasure and the joy of being in a female body whilst exercising. The focus is not on improving our bodies but enjoying our bodies to the fullest. Rather than a powerful aggressive workout we want to be open and receptive to the inherent gifts and sensations of our bodies.

The easiest way to determine if an exercise is supporting our own unique expression of healthy feminine energy is to listen to our bodies and become aware of how much we are actually enjoying it. You can ask yourself: How does it feel in my body? Am I happier and more energetic than before? Healthy exercises for women will encourage the flow of endorphines – our pleasure giving hormones- and promote a more sensual physical energy and feeling of wellbeing.

Most of us have experienced signing up for a class and dropping out half-way through. No need to feel guilty – it just wasn’t enjoyable enough for us. Our body’s wisdom never lies. A class that’s right for you will naturally make you come back for more. If there is nothing for you at the gym you can always be a little creative and move freely to your favorite tune at home, swim, learn to roller-skate again with your kids, get your bicycle out or simply enjoy walking the dog in the park. Don’t “just do it”. But “enjoy doing it your way!”

If you feel called to delve deeper into the twin-soul truth I recommend visiting the website of Yael, Doug and ShannaPra at:

CIRCLE OF LIGHT
Opening the hearts of humanity by bringing SoulMates or Twin Flames together in God's Love. Sharing the Messages from God through mystic Yael Powell about SoulMate Love, conscious relationship, Sacred Sexuality, Christ consciousness and Abundance for the transformation of our world. http://www.circleoflight.net - http://www.unitingtwinflames.com

It is only in fully opening our heart to ourselves first and allowing us to FEEL that we already ARE the very love we desire (and can therefore never be unworthy of it) that we will release our illusion of lack.

If true self-love is the starting point of attracting anything we desire, how can we feel more self-love?

When I was a divorcee and single mum one simple repeated question kept unblocking and nurturing the flow of my self-love:

Is this (thought, feeling, action) truly honoring myself?

All self-honoring choices will strengthen our sense of authenticity and dignity and might feel risky and uncomfortable or liberating and exhilarating.

Examples of self-honoring choices include:
- allowing ourselves to feel and express emotions freely without self-censorship
- being honest with ourselves and others about our deepest values and desires
- making choices that value our emotional, physical and spiritual health
- embracing change and growth in our life

It is only in our commitment to honor ourselves completely that we will feel the deepest levels of self-love and acceptance and put ourselves in full alignment to attract our true spiritual and romantic partner.

With love and highest regards,

Susanne

Orangelily wants to give you a gift of 58% automatic commission (for recommending Kinetikus in a simple email to your friends or subsribers! 

To start earning your 58% commission (US$ 8 per ebook) please allow Orangelily to help you create a simple so-called "Affiliate Link" for the Kinetikus ebook, which you can then share in a regular email to your friends or place it on your website, blog or in your electronic communication with any subscribers you might have.

What is an Affiliate Link?
An Affiliate link is simply a webaddress (URL) that will allow people to purchase the Kinetikus ebook if they wish. The difference to an ordinary link is that it automatically "tracks" or records that it was YOU, the Affiliate who first directed the person who is purchasing the ebook, and instantly allocates a 58% commission to your Affiliate account. Orangelily uses Clickbank (the top interface for online products) as the provider of this service.

How does is work?
Whenever your contacts click on your affiliate link they will have a choice to purchase and instantly download the Kinetikus ebook via our shopping pages and you will automatically earn 58% commission on any ebook sales via your link. This means that you will receive a periodic cheque from ClickBank.

How can I create an Affiliate Link?
It's very easy. Simply click on the link below and register with clickbank. This will only take you a few minutes!

CLICK HERE NOW TO CREATE YOUR PERSONAL AFFILIATE LINK !

You can then easily sent your link in an email, newsletter etc. with a personal review, brief intro or recommendation to your contacts and subscribers and begin to earn commission.

We would also love to provide you with any support material you might require to best introduce Kinetikus to others and have created an affiliate ressource file with the cover image, a synopsis, testimonials, Author Bio etc. for you.

If you wish to receive your ressource file, please email your affiliate link to:  mail@orangelily.net

I hope you will enjoy your generous commission!

With highest regards and gratitude,

Susanne
Founder of www.orangelily.net

Why is Kinetikus so different compared to other romance novels?

• Kinetikus is based on a true soulmate story and not escapism!
  
• Kinetikus has a high vibration and energises the reader!
  
• Kinetikus is written with the intention to align you with true love!
  
• Kinetikus is written from fulness versus lack!

“Kinetikus is magical, heart-felt, wise, raunchy and impossible to put down.” A. Belton, Author

•  Kinetikus is deliciously sensual and transportive

• It inspires and energizes us

• It helps us to attract true love

• It contains wisdom and truths relevant to all of us

• It is based on a true story and written from the heart

When Kinetikus discovers his sensual gift at a young age, he begins to act like a kid in a candy store. Years later, as a successful entrepreneur, he realises, that none of his female conquests has ever truly touched his soul. A chance encounter with independent foreigner Lilliane marks the beginning of a mutual soul-searching journey. Their radical honesty and deepest exposure opens the gateway to exquisite sensuality, confirming that there are no coincidences.

Kinetikus Paperback
ISBN Nr. 978-0-9551663-1-0
(Retail Price £9.99)
Orangelily Web Offer £8.99 

"I just finished reading Kinetikus. I so loved it. It was enchanting, inspiring and compelling and moved me deeply. I loved the beautiful descriptions of the divine realms that open in the pleasure and joy of union in sexuality. It is a soul-stirring tale of love; open, honest and from the heart. The only reason I didn't finish it all in one night is because I was enjoying it so much, I wanted to save some for the next day! Rather like a delicious meal you don't want to end! I think anyone would gain magic from Kinetikus and the seeds of love and wisdom within it. Your work is a wonderful gift and transformational beacon that can help people to open to the joys of love and intimacy. Thank you for sharing the brightness and beauty of your spirit." A. Belton, Author

The night before she met her future husband, a young woman was directed to an astrology website by a random e-mail. Her horoscope suggested that the next day would be a good day to meet "someone special". She went to college as usual and on her return found a message on her answer-phone. It was an invitation to join a group of people at a pub she had never been to before. She decided to go.

Quite late a refined looking man entered the venue and came straight to her table. He had also been invited at very short notice by a friend and never been to the pub before. Although she did not know him, an intuition told her that he was coming from New York. She smiled in recognition when he mentioned that he had been on a meaningful trip to New York. When it was closing time he looked at her and said: "You speak my language".

He called her the next day. They became intimate friends and lovers and the depth of their love inspired her to write a novel. Although they had always felt that fate had brought them together, it was not until a few years later that they received the most magic proof thereof.

She had been studying Energy Medicine and had connected deeply with an orange lily during a lecture on Flower Essences. Since then orange lilies had been her favorite flowers. She even began to dress in orange and friends referred to her as Orangelily.

As she had always loved his beautiful elegant hands, she chose a painting of his hand for the cover of her book. He had shared with her that all through his life people had been attracted to his hands in the strangest ways, and that he had joked before that one day he would become a “Hand Model”, which had now become true.

One day she was driving past the pub where they had met years before, and never been since. She had no memory of its name.

When she noticed the sign above the door she got goose bumps all over.

The name of the pub was: The Hand and Flower

They later held their wedding reception there.

 
Susanne Meis, MLCHom, is the Author of "Kinetikus - The Story of a Divine Lover" and a popular speaker on divine love and the divine feminine. Susanne is passionate about helping others to open to divine love and happy to answer any questions. To learn more visit: www.orangelily.net

We attract people as mirrors to help us remember self-love and acceptance but also to bring unresolved issues and fears in us to the surface. For example: As a highly sensitive child I experienced my fathers verbal anger outbursts as a physical threat and still had been afraid of "making people angry with me" until only recently. When I noticed that I had become somewhat afraid of the husband of a close friend I realised that he matched the energy that my father carried when I was a child. They even share the same name. I then saw that his wife also had a very similar energy to my mother.

I found this quite funny. Although my parents live in a different country and I we share a loving friendship,  I had managed to "manifest my parents" and recreate my childhood fears right at my doorstep to help me address an issue that was still holding me back in my life. Looking out for the mirrors around us will grow our understanding of ourself and foster increasing acceptance. We can then choose to consciously feel and release any fears and replace it with new empowering beliefs.

When it comes to love - I am a hopeless romantic. However, I believe that the ultimate purpose of any relationship is solely to help us grow and evolve as human being on all levels: mentally, emotionally and spiritually. 

But there is still plenty of scope for romance. In a relationship with our twinsoul we will not only help eachother grow in magic and uniquely complementary ways, but we will also learn to open to ever higher levels of love with eachother in a romantic, truly intimate and deeply fulfilling way.

With love and highest regards,

Susanne

There is only one root cause for any kind of lack in our lives. A sense of unworthiness or lack of self-esteem. When we don’t value ourself we attract people and situations which confirm to us that we are unworthy of love. This then can turn into a cycle of Focussing on our fears. When we are single, or after a relationship breakup or any disappointment, we often focus on avoiding the same or similar pain again. Whilst it is good to know what we don’t want, solely focusing on avoiding it will actually draw the manifestation of our fears to us. Where attention goes, energy flows. So we want to put our conscious focus on What We Want. But if we don’t feel worthy we sometimes don’t even allow ourself to find out or ask for what we truly desire. Being very clear and totally honest to ourself about our deepest desires in a relationship or any other area of our life is absolutely crucial.

If there was one thing that we as men and women could do on a daily basis to bring us closer to the experience of Divine Love, What might it be?

To attract Divine Love or create it in an existing relationship, we want to truly experience ourself as an expression of it. Whilst it can seem hard to TRY to love ourself, the great news is that we don’t have to. All we need to do is to remember that we already DO! Deep down inside. We were born with love for ourself. And the evidence is in every good thing in our life. Every good thing that happens – no matter how small, is proof that we already love ourself. Each time we recognize this, feeling the warm flow of love within, we open our blocks to self-love a little further. Each time we raise our vibration. And as like attracts like, love will attract love.

Last but not least!

I believe it was Einstein who said that one of the most important decisions we will all have to make in our lives, is whether we live in a friendly or a hostile universe. He understood that what we focus on will be our reality. It took me over 30 years to realize that I live in a friendly universe, that we already are the very love we desire, and therefore can never be undeserving of it. I have never looked back since.

With love and highest regards,

Susanne